Starpulse.com is reporting that MÖTLEY CRÜE drummer Tommy Lee was left red-faced when he discovered the stunning girl he was flirting with was a transsexual. The rocker had reportedly asked sexy Nina Arsenault to sit on his knee while he was partying at Toronto's swanky Ultra Supper Club. According to the New York Post, the pair were drinking Tequila and getting friendly when one of Lee's employees told him his companion wasn't all woman.Nina said: "That's when he took a good, long look at me." The star — who was previously married to former "Baywatch" babe Pamela Anderson — is said to have announced he needed cigarettes and fled the table. Earlier this month, it was claimed the MÖTLEY CRÜE drummer was dating a porn star. Lee was said to be romancing 20-year-old Stefani Morgan, who is contracted to U.S. porn giants Vivid Video. The pair met at an Adult Video News Awards after-party at Las Vegas' lavish Venetian hotel. A friend of Morgan's told the New York Post: "They've been seeing a lot of each other." Tommy, who has previously been linked with porn superstar Jenna Jameson, has not confirmed whether he is dating Morgan. In other news, the Detroit Free Press is reporting that Tommy Lee was a no-show Saturday night, February 4 (at least as of 3:45 a.m.) as the scheduled after-party entertainment for the Penthouse Party at the Vault in Detroit, which throughout the evening had featured entertainment from Snoop Dogg and roaming Penthouse Pets and other hired beauties. As of about 2 a.m. — the scheduled after-party slot — things were still going strong. Most of the packed house seemed oblivious to the absence of the MÖTLEY CRÜE drummer, who doubles as a DJ. Not long after, the crowd started noticeably thinning. The drinks stopped flowing, and at least for a few moments, the music was turned off. Thanks to a local DJ, the sounds came back up again. But as of about 3:45 a.m., Lee was still nowhere to be found.